Gestational Surrogacy Process -a step-by-step guide for beginners
Starting the Gestational Surrogacy Process is not an easy task. However, with our 10 years of experience in this domain, we make surrogacy possible. Let us explore how surrogacy works, with our stepwise guide.
The surrogacy process takes 18 months to 24 months depending upon the individual circumstances
Outlines the surrogacy process timeline for gay intended parents:
| Stage | Description of Stage | Duration |
| Research Phase | Explore family-building options and decide on surrogacy. | Personal timeframe |
| Consultation and Application | Choose a surrogacy agency, sign an agreement, and start embryo creation (if needed). | 1-3 Months |
| Matching | The agency finds and presents potential gestational carriers. Meet and decide on a match. | 3-6 Months |
| Medical Screening and Contracts | Carrier undergoes medical and psychological screening. Sign a surrogacy contract. | 1-2 Months |
| Embryo Transfer | Prepare for embryo transfer. Success may take multiple attempts. | 1-1.5 Months |
| Pregnancy | Gestational carrier’s pregnancy, approximately 40 weeks. | 9-10 Months |
| Birth and Postpartum | Baby’s birth, establish parental rights, and the postpartum period. | 1.5-3 Months |
Please keep in mind that the durations mentioned in the table are approximate and can vary depending on individual circumstances and other factors. Always consult with a reputable surrogacy agency or professional to get personalized guidance throughout the surrogacy journey.
Step #1. Contact us and let us know what your specific requirement
As soon as we hear from you and understand your exact requirements, we will suggest the program most suitable for you. We will request you provide as much information as possible such as your age, marital status, medical complication if any, citizenship, etc. This will help us to understand and get back to you with specific details pertaining to your program. We will be sharing with you general information about your program and price list with the breakdown of cost for your specific case. If you agree to proceed, we will be assisting you further.
Step #2. Selecting an Egg Donor/Surrogate Mother
In case you need an egg donor for your program, you can access the donor database and choose the egg donor of your choice. Your case manager will help you in matching the donor profile for you. You can choose a local donor or a Caucasian donor from our partner agency.
Step #3. Screening Tests
We will provide you with a list of tests to confirm your eligibility medically. You can do these tests in your city, and send a scanned copy for review by a fertility specialist. Please note that in case, you are using an egg donor and surrogate mother, only male partners need to do Pre- IVF tests. If you are self-cycling, then both partners will be asked to complete tests. These may include hormone level tests for self-cycles, scans for ED IVF cycles, blood types, infectious disease screens, and semen analysis.
Step #4. Sign Contracts
One of the essential requirements of the surrogacy program is to complete paperwork to ensure your rights and the surrogate rights. To save time and money, the agency/lawyer can make your specific Surrogacy Contract and email/fax/courier for your signature. Once reviewed and signed, you can bring a signed copy with you while traveling for the IVF cycle. Please note that in case you are using an egg donor, you also need to sign a separate Egg Donor Contract.
Step #5. First payment
Once contracts are signed, the Intended Parents are required to make the first payment as per your specific price list. It is advised to discuss price and cost breakdown in advance with your case manager.
Step #6. Preparation and synchronization
As soon as we receive the first payment, tests, and preparation/synchronization of your cycle with the donor or that of your egg donor with the surrogate begin. Generally, it takes 6 weeks to complete synchronization and start the stimulation protocol. If you are self cycling then you will receive clear instructions to start fertility medication and an elaborated schedule will be provided to you before coming for egg pick up.
Step #7. IVF and Pregnancy Tests
Once you visit a surrogacy country, you will meet the local team, doctor, donor, and surrogate. IVF specialists will discuss your program with you along with the date of egg pick up. IVF is done and embryos are implanted in your surrogate mother’s uterus, she will be kept on luteal support for 2 weeks. A blood test is done after 2 weeks to confirm pregnancy. Once pregnancy is confirmed and the gestational sac and heartbeat are seen, you will be getting regular updates on the surrogacy progress.
Step #8. Surrogate Pregnancy Care
Throughout her pregnancy, the surrogate is closely monitored by our IVF team. Her routine blood tests and scans, check-ups will be shared with you. If you wish, you can also have a Skype meeting with a surrogate mother. The Surrogate receives monthly compensation and the doctor closely monitors her progress in the coming months.
Step #9. Baby Birth
The estimated date of delivery is discussed with you so that you are present at the time of delivery. In case the surrogate goes into premature labor pain, you will be notified, and if a Cesarean is necessary, it will be discussed with you. Once the baby is born, the baby’s birth certificate is given, which will further initiate the process of applying for a baby passport and subsequent baby exit.
Step #10. Baby Exit Process
Once you receive a baby’s birth certificate, our surrogacy lawyer will guide and assist you with documents for the baby’s citizenship. Most countries do ask for DNA Tests for citizenship, in this case, you can pre-order the DNA kit before the baby’s birth. Once citizenship is gained, you can apply for a baby passport and exit visa. The taking baby home process varies from country to country; our surrogacy legal team will be helping you with your country-specific protocol.
Overview of Surrogacy Timeline for Intended Parents
Table with information on countries and their surrogacy laws:
Table with information on countries and their surrogacy laws:| Country | Commercial Surrogacy | Altruistic Surrogacy | Surrogacy Status |
| Australia | Prohibited | Allowed | Altruistic surrogacy is legal in all jurisdictions. Commercial surrogacy is a criminal offense. |
| Canada | Banned | Allowed | Only altruistic surrogacy is permitted. Compensation for gestational carriers is limited to approved expenses. |
| Colombia | Uncertain | Allowed | There are no clear rules, but altruistic surrogacy is performed and well tolerated. |
| Greece | Banned | Allowed | Heterosexual couples, and single females are allowed. |
| India | Prohibited | Allowed | Altruistic surrogacy is permitted for certain couples based on medical and age criteria. |
| Israel | Allowed | Allowed | Gestational surrogacy is legal under the Embryo Carrying Agreements Law. |
| Kenya | N/A | N/A | No legal regulations/laws for surrogacy in Kenya. |
| Mexico | Allowed | N/A | Surrogacy, along with ovum and sperm donation, has been legal since 1992. |
| New Zealand | N/A | Allowed | Altruistic surrogacy is legal. |
| Thailand | Banned | N/A | Commercial surrogacy is criminalized under the Medical Council Act. |
| Ukraine | Allowed | Allowed | Surrogacy and egg/sperm donation are legal and supported by liberal laws. |
| United Kingdom | N/A | Allowed | Surrogacy laws vary across different states/territories in the UK. |
| United States | Varies by state | Allowed | Surrogacy laws vary by state, some are surrogacy-friendly, while others restrict or penalize commercial surrogacy. |
More resources:
Advantage Of Surrogacy In the USA
5 Things To Know Before Going For Surrogacy Process
Are intended parents also screened for surrogacy?
Is Surrogacy in India For Overseas Citizenship of India (OCI) Allowed?
Legal Issues Related To Surrogacy In India
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Our team has over 13 years of experience facilitating surrogacy arrangements, egg donation, and serving as an advocacy resource for infertile couples and LGBTQ individuals seeking to build families.
Our founder and chief surrogacy consultant, Neelam Chhagani, passionately helps couples struggling with fertility challenges. Since starting our surrogacy consulting agency in 2013, we’ve helped welcome over 500 babies for intended parents nationwide.
Our team includes experts from diverse backgrounds with leading reproductive attorneys, professionally trained top fertility doctors, former surrogacy case managers, experienced and kind surrogate mother and egg donor coordinators, mental health professionals specializing in infertility counseling, and a logistic support team to assist you in your chosen surrogacy country.